Is It Overall Stress?
Before you jump to any conclusions, try and understand his situation. Does he have a job that is too demanding? Has he been having trouble with his boss? It is no rocket science that if your partner is under great stress or pressure, he will be generally feeling more drained and exhausted, and will have less time and attention to spare for you. If he is going through a tough phase, the best you can do right now is support him and help him come out of it. If you don't and he drifts away, it may not be simple to get him back easily.
A Failing Relationship
If your judgment says that his circumstances are not the reason for his declining interest in you, what you should be asking yourself is whether he is losing interest in the relationship. Try to be honest here; there will be no satisfaction in keeping yourself in the dark. While a general sense of exhaustion affects everything he does, a declining interest in the relationship will only lead to a bad and lethargic mood when he is with you. If his interest in the relationship is declining, you need to talk to him and find out what the problem is. However, try to do this maturely and as calmly as you can. An emotional outburst may just put him off. Also, try to be sensitive to the things that put him off and irritate him. If you really put your mind to it, you should have little trouble in 'picking his pulse.' Getting back your boyfriend takes a lot of understanding and patience.
Bring Back the Spark
One thing that generally helps a failing relationship is an effort to bring the spark back. Try to engage him by thinking of fun ways to spend time and interesting and romantic things you can do together. Though, make sure that whatever ideas you choose are fun and interesting for both of you! You will also need to be careful not to make your effort too dramatic and obvious, if he is not in the mood for that sort of a surprise. After all, you don't want to put pressure on him. Instead, the idea is to enjoy the moment with him and get him back with you.
The 'Other' Woman
The reason that you probably dread the most, but which could well be true is that your boyfriend is interested in someone else. If that is happening, and you still want your boyfriend back, you will need to change your mindset and make him value you more. The idea is to show him the ways in which you are irreplaceable. You also need to have a serious conversation with him. While you will naturally express your displeasure, you should also find out what was missing that he was prompted to look outside the relationship. Chances are that he has gone to another woman to satisfy something he isn't getting with you. Mutual understanding of each other's needs acts as a big factor in saving a relationship, putting it back on track and getting back together again.
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